although it doesn’t always follow that people might be most open-minded. In reality, it does increase the reality that we’ll render extra narrow-minded behavior.
We’re bad at anticipating whatever you will in fact fancy when confronted with it, and also this makes us less likely to bring ourselves the chance to pursue a ‘non-ideal’ (by our own private standard) prospect. Since we won’t engage these non-ideal, perhaps plaid-loving candidates, our biases are never challenged. Those that have choice but can’t find the right person to see those criteria from inside the real world look online to locate someone who fulfils her requirements.